Are You Having Bad Marriage? You Can Turn it Around - By Mugendi Elizaphan
Bad marriages and good ones have one thing in common; that both are made. You can choose to have a good one or a bad one. All what matters are the tools and materials you use. If you use temporary materials to build your marriage, then automatically it will be short lived but if you use permanent materials, then expect a strong, stable, reliable and secure marriage.
Today, you can begin a process that will change the course of your marriage permanently. The first step towards the turn around is by acknowledging that indeed the marriage is not on the right course. Secondly, accept that it is you that made so - do not try to blame anybody including your spouse for the current state. Thirdly, pray and believe you can change the course of your marriage by God's help. Fourthly, make a verbal (or even written) commitment to your spouse that you have decided to make a good and happy marriage. Fifthly, plead with your spouse to join you in changing the destiny of your marriage.
If you will be committed to the decision you will make, then there is nothing that will be difficult to achieve. You will face hurdles on your path but remember your goal is to achieve a successful, happy, fulfilling, secure and joyful marriage. Do not settle at anything short of this. Be passionate and determined to see and experience the best out of your marriage. Do not entertain contrary views and ideas like 'it will not work'. Be good and you will make a good marriage.
Mugendi is a re-known and sought after counselor. He is involved in both individual and group counseling. Your Marriage Counselor. He is also an accomplished minister of the gospel. Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Mugendi_Elizaphan Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/2771558
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